Saturday 23 March 2013

IS IT WORTH THE WAIT- FINDING MR RIGHT


 

 sometimes i really wonder if a relationship is
worth waiting on ... We find that these days  there are few  ladies who are willing to wait, struggle and grow with a man most times they want the PERFECTLY RICH MR RIGHT and in the process subject themselves to all sorts of things to find him.

 I have friends whose husband's when they were boyfriend's din't even have a car or good job but they stayed with them cos of love and hope...you should see them now you would think they had been rich all thier lives... how did they do it??? they persevered and grew with the man they loved and believed in. Dont get me wrong ohhh!!! it wasnt easy but it was worth it.

I am not saying that a lady has to suffer with a man before he loves her or gets the best from him but if you meet a man that has potential and ambition and you  love him why not give him a try and wait on GOD instead of hustling to get the attention of the HONEY COATED RICH GUY who might not even know you exist , you wear clothes that barely cover you up in a bid to get his attention, you go to owambe’s just to meet him, you even go to highly placed churches, you start playing golf, etc

  Why don’t you just stop for  a second and see yourself  as intelligent , beautiful and result oriented. Believe that you can get  a good man … MR RIGHT might just be right there in front of you and you are ignoring him because he is not driving a prado jeep and living in Ajah... Why must a lady rely on a man to do everything for her ... Have you ever thought about working a making a few bucks for yourself..... You are meant to compliment  and support each other.

Looking back to my university days at those babes that would just jump into bed with anyone that was willing to buy them cars, phones, hair, tickets  etc  baaaaabeeee you can get all those things by  yourself . first and foremost you are to take care of yourself then your boyfriend/ husband compliments it... The burden shouldn't be on him alone…… men respect  a lady that is resourceful and intelligent.

  Have you ever stopped to wonder if you have the attitude and morals to attract  MR RIGHT; it’s also about you and the things you do to attract the right people towards you..... He might just be that guy who’s been trying to get your attention... Why not give him a try, it might be worth it...     Xoxo mosh

Thursday 14 March 2013

Essence of forgiveness




 Forgiveness hmmmmm……. How many times has someone hurt us so bad that we decide that we are not going to forgive  or forget, we hold on to grudges for as long as we can, we sow seeds of destruction so bad that sometimes we even say that even if GOD descends from HIS throne we wont forgive.

Some people even go as far as saying that in future if their son/ daughter meets their arch enemy’s daughter/son they won’t be friends or date, he/she broke my heart etc hmmmm the question is why?? Why?? Why??  

 



Why do we hold on to irrelevant things, why do we waste so much time on grudges……personally I feel when you are holding on to a grudge you are just feeding rage , bitterness and anger  and all these things make you age……  

  Forgiveness gives you freedom.... in mind and spirit. Your thoughts and actions are unprejudiced. How can a mere mortal decide that he/she  won’t forgive when even GOD in HIS  magnitude forgives us.,If  HE was to behave like us and say HE won't forgive we would all be dead or in the ICU abi....  

I personally find it hard to forget issues.... I forgive but I don't forget ..... And its bad  whenever am in that mood I give myself this pep talk above .  

  Forgiveness is free.........……give it even when the person doesn't deserve it. You only live once.....

 xoxo mosh

Sunday 10 March 2013

happy mother's day

mother's day is here again....it took me having my own daughter to really understand the  depth of being a mother.... the sacrifice,the undying love, patience etc I can go on forever. mother's are GOD's gift to us, sometimes we take her for granted, treat her badly; her undying and unending love is never in question. Mummy I love u, I appreciate you, you mean the world to me. I can never ask God for a better mum........ u r the bestest





xoxo mosh











Saturday 2 March 2013

The luxury market

Last weekend I was sitting at home bored to pieces when I saw my friend's display about the luxury market at sheraton, I chatted her up and we decided to go for it. I dint really know what to expect but I must tell you I had a lovely time. I thot to share the pictures with you guys.













I had fun at this market, I bought a book, an ankara notebook and cute pink device that plays my favourite songs from my memory card




This event takes place every quarter, there's lots and lots to buy and you can also make reservations to sell your products and services.  I'll keep you all posted when the next one's coming up. 

xoxo mosh